Regardless of how attachment appears, it reflects a failure to recognize the perfection of what presents now, here, and within yourself. The cause of an attachment is irrelevant. The fact remains we have lost sight of the perfection of here and now.
Remain still until desire releases and neutrality returns. Notice the subtle pulls as they arise; let them do their thing without reacting to them. Freedom arises in layers.
True detachment is a neutrality, but within neutrality is an openness to feel deeply.
Moving from this space, effort can be exerted without strain, as work is done through stillness. Relationships become fluid and light, as their true essence is allowed to reveal.